About Me

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  Raised by a fun loving, atheist single mom who struggled with depression and mental illness I spent my childhood backpacking around Europe, visiting yoga communes, eating vegan, living on a houseboat, then an old pony express outpost in the backwoods of Montana.

My teen years life took a drastic turn when my mom got saved, got married, and joined an ultra-conservative Mennonite church. Faith, step parents and unquestioning obedience is a dangerous combination when mixed with mental illness, legalism, and heavy handed physical correction.

I became a confused believer with a heart for Jesus but drowning under a sea of rules, regulations, and legalism. I became a missionary teacher and then a nurse and escaped to the mission field, the one avenue open to single women.  I taught VBS on Indian reservations, led school for missionary children in Haiti and Africa. All around me was heartache and disease and glaring need. I longed to make a difference but was limited to working on the mission compound – teaching, cooking, cleaning. Work outside the walls of the compound was reserved for the men. Questioning these roles were tantamount with rebellion.

On a furlough, I met my future husband – a new believer who wasn’t looking for a door mat in a wife but a partner. As he grew in his faith, I reexamined mine and what Biblical womanhood looked like. Timidly at first, but then eagerly as I discovered a new relationship with Jesus Christ based on grace and not performance.

I left the Mennonite church and married the love of my life twenty years ago.  We have five beautiful teenagers, two by birth and three through adoption from Haiti. My husband is adopted and God used the time in Haiti to prepare me to understand my children’s culture and language and ease their transitions home.

Two people in my family have mild Asperger’s and one has Reactive Attachment disorder, PTSD, and ODD.  Our house is not a quiet, well greased machine but a chaotic, happy, crazy, nerve racking, love filled oasis where we all try to help each other grow and thrive.

I am so thankful for my life – the good and the bad. I feel blessed to have experienced so many unique situations and to love and be loved by so many wonderful and eccentric people. It is from these experiences I draw the fiction stories I write. I like to think of them as fiction with grit – fast paced and entertaining stories that make you want to read till the very last page while at the same time tackling real life issues – Legalism, abuse, divorce, adoption, Asperger syndrome.

I hope you’ll pull up a chair and stay a while. Drop me a line and share your own story. I’d love to hear it.

 

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The weapon we can’t live without

Be prepared. You’re up against far more than you can handle on your own... Be prepared. You’re up against far more than you can handle on your own. Take… every weapon God has issued.

God’s Word is an indispensable weapon. In the same way, prayer is essential in this ongoing warfare. Pray hard and long. Pray for your brothers and sisters. Keep your eyes open. Keep each other’s spirits up so that no one falls behind or drops out.
Ephesians 6:13&17-18 MSG

I love this. Overwhelmed? Desperate? Irritable? Bitter?

“You are up against more than you can handle on your own.”

God hasn’t forgotten about you. Neither has Satan.

“You can’t handle this on your own-take every weapon available to you.”

God’s word is an indispensable weapon. Prayer is essential to the warfare.

Not helpful weapons, not encouraging words, not a Sunday morning shot to the arm.

We can never be transformed into Jesus’ hands and feet to the world, to our children – responding as He would- without His word fortifying us and our hearts crying out and finding refuge in Him.

When I get up tomorrow morning- bleary eyed, with an overwhelming schedule-and see my Bible on the nightstand. One more thing on my to do list? No.

The essential and indispensable weapon I can’t afford to do my day without!

On a final note… I need your prayers and you need mine!

“Pray for your brothers and sisters. Keep your eyes open. Keep each other’s spirits up so that no one falls behind or drops out.

Together in the journey!